By
Rebecca St. James
There
is nothing like the weeks before the wedding, especially one that has been
years in the making. All the “I’s” have
been dotted, the “T’s” crossed.
Everything is set and you are finally going to marry the man of your
dreams, then suddenly, harshly, everything you thought you knew about your
fiancé turns out to be a sham. He is not
the man he has put himself to be. Your
world comes tumbling down around you into tiny shards so small, even Humpty
Dumpty’s army could never pick it up and put it all back together again.
To
make matters worse, you have promised not to speak of why to anyone, not
ANYONE. So now this has become your burden, your shame, and you must carry it
alone. Why? You have suddenly become the bad guy, and the
hole gets deeper and darker.
What
is different about this story is the point-of-view. We hear how Porn affects men and tears their
relationships apart and destroys their lives.
But this story is focused, not on “his” story, but on “her” story. It is about the great harm it does to the
woman and her lonely isolated battle of shame, denial, silence, and depression
that often draw her down as she is shamed into helping to keep the secret for
any number of reasons.
This One Thing is a poignant story of a young lady faced with
the startling revelation that her fiancé of great moral stature is in fact in
the clutches of Pornography. Her story
is the shared story of so many women who face the shame and despair of dealing
with a significant other or spouse who find themselves stuck in the cycle of
porn by a family member. They most often
find themselves hiding it from family, friends, and society.
This
book is a message of hope for women who are hurting. It is a book of encouragement to seek support
and assistance in the face of ridicule, for that is where true help and healing
will be found. Most of all, in reaching
out as women, we find that we are not alone.
This
is not an easy book to read because of the subject matter, but I strongly recommend
the book as a good resource and encouragement.
I am thankful for Rebecca St. James having the courage to tackle such a
difficult subject and do justice to the subject matter while maintaining the
integrity of a wonderful storyline that was full of hope.
Christian
Fiction Five Stars
One Last Thing was provided by Net Galley to read for this review.
Rebecca St. James is a Grammy and Dove Award recipient and a best-selling author whose books include Wait for Me and What Is He Thinking? Her leading role in the film Sarah’s Choice won critical acclaim. A passionate spokesperson for Compassion International, more than 30,000 children have found sponsorship through her worldwide concerts. Twitter: @RebeccaStJames Facebook: RSJames
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